Blissful Comfort Nuptial Bond

They say Indian wedding's the most chaotic event for families. So much so that 'runaway brides' and 'grooms' is not just in movies. The feeling does come often when you are the one who is put on spot for possibly the first and last time in your life. Pre-wedding jitters, constant nagging over nothings, feeling scared with every move, no move, the zeal to control one's thoughts and failing everytime; yes all is true. But this is a general emotional troll with possibly all couples who decide to fall prey to wedding of India. 
What is special at times is an uncertain long distance courtship with someone you never have met for more than four times in your life and in the 21st century with such a conservative value system. Their worlds which they beautifully carved out are poles apart in every manner. She's still the innocence he once was. He's just the perfect rational balance she desires to have. She's the unchained thought he is breaking free for and he's the luxury she feels most comfortable in to retire in royal style. 

The journey has just begun from Arctic to Antartica. Sitting closest to Equator today, what matches is their way to escape and find peace within, and that is through words. And so, finally this struggling blogger found her story writer for life. Wishing our waves always balance each other in harmony. 

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